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Psychiatric Times. Vol. 17 No. 3
Men's Reactions to Female Sexual Coercion
Cindy Struckman and David Struckman
Dr. Cindy Struckman-Johnson is professor of psychology specializing in social psychology and sexuality at the University
of South Dakota. Dr. David Struckman-Johnson is professor of psychology and computer science specializing in statistics
and evaluation at the University of South Dakota.
Reactions
Men's strong negative reactions to sexual coercion by another man have been well documented
(Myers, 1989; Scarce, 1997). Several researchers have described men's reactions to sexual assault by
perpetrators who included both men and women (King and Woollett, 1997; Sorenson and Siegel, 1992).
Only a few studies have exclusively examined the effects of female sexual coercion of adult men. The
classic work is that of Sarrel and Masters (1982) who discussed the emotional impact on 11 men who
had been sexually molested by females. In the course of counseling for sexual problems, the men
revealed recent and past incidents of forcible rape, abuse by a baby-sitter, incest and assault by a
dominant woman. The authors documented a posttraumatic reaction involving depression and sexual
aversion and dysfunction.
Most of the information about male reactions to female sexual coercion comes from surveys of college
men. Larimer et al. (1999) discovered that fraternity men who had experienced sexual coercion had
more depressive symptoms, more alcohol use and more alcohol-related problems than fraternity men
who had not been sexually coerced. It was not known whether these states were caused by the
coercion experience. O'Sullivan et al. (1998) found that male victims had a range of positive to negative
reactions to unwanted sexual contact at the time it happened. Nearly 40% of male victims reported
being not at all upset, whereas 17% were extremely upset at the time of the incident. One-fifth of the
men indicated that the incident decreased their involvement in social activities, and 19% had
impairment of academic functioning.
Our research also revealed that college men have mixed reactions to female sexual coercion. In the
1988 study, 21 male victims were asked to categorize how they felt about being forced to have sexual
intercourse at the time it happened (Struckman-Johnson, 1988). Twenty-five percent said they felt
good, 50% felt neutral and 25% felt bad. One-fifth of the victims reported that long-term effects had
occurred. In our 1994 study, almost half of the male victims rated the incident as having no negative
impact, whereas 23% rated the negative impact in the moderate to severe range (Struckman-Johnson
and Struckman-Johnson, 1994). We found no differences in sexual self-esteem between men with and
without coercion experience. In a similar survey in 1998, we determined that 33% of male victims rated
the incident as having no effect, 30% were mildly to moderately upset, and 14% had a severe negative
effect (Anderson and Struckman-Johnson, 1998). Our general conclusion is that at least one out of five
men has a strong negative reaction to sexual coercion from a woman.
We speculate that many men are not upset by female sexual coercion because the event is "sex-role
congruent." According to cultural scripts, men are expected to initiate and to pursue ever-increasing
levels of sexual intimacy with female partners. Therefore, when a man is confronted with a sexually
aggressive woman, he is likely to view it as a positive opportunity to have sex, not a violation of will
(Struckman-Johnson and Struckman-Johnson, 1996). O'Sullivan et al. (1998) suggested that female
sexual coercion may even enhance a man's reputation and thus prevent negative effects. Zweig et al.
(1997) added that a man's sexual script may protect him from feeling negatively about himself because
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he had sex. Another protective factor is men's size and physical strength-they may feel that they have
little to fear from a smaller, weaker female perpetrator. It is also possible that men deny or minimize
their victimization because of masculine standards to be self-reliant (Struckman-Johnson, 1991).
In what situations, then, are men distressed by female sexual coercion? Foremost, we have found that
a man is likely to be greatly upset when a woman uses physical restraint against him. Even if the man
knows that he can escape, he is still likely to feel shocked, confused and possibly frightened by a
woman's use of force. Men are also likely to have a strong negative reaction when they are exploited by
a woman while they are intoxicated, especially if the woman is unattractive. Dozens of men in this
situation have told us how upsetting it was to be unable to physically stop the sexual interaction. Others
resented the woman for taking away their right to choose who they would have sex with.
A third distressing circumstance is when a young man with conservative sexual standards loses his
virginity to a sexually coercive woman, who is usually older. Numerous young men in our surveys have
reported that this type of incident prevented them from having their "first time" with a partner who was
specially chosen and well-loved. Another upsetting circumstance is one in which a sexually aggressive
woman causes a man to betray another woman in his life.
Finally, men tend to be negatively affected when the female perpetrator is a powerful authority figure.
For example, in a recent study, we found that some men in prison were profoundly upset when female
staff coerced them into sexual activity (Struckman-Johnson and Struckman-Johnson, 2000).
In our research, we have not systematically assessed the nature of psychological trauma experienced
by male victims. Through written survey comments and interviews, however, we have found that men
who are very upset by an incident of female sexual coercion are likely to experience subsequent distrust
and wariness around women and to have relationship difficulties.
Much research suggests that men who are sexually coerced by either a woman or a man are unlikely to
report the incident to the police, tend not to reveal the sexual incident if they seek medical treatment,
and are unlikely to seek psychological support or therapy for subsequent emotional problems (Pino and
Meier, 1999; Sorenson and Siegel, 1992.) Psychiatric and medical professionals are encouraged to
address this hidden victimization by asking their male clients if sexual assault has occurred in their past
and, if so, to provide or refer them to appropriate treatment.
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